Is it possible for ladies to tell if guys are interested in them via text? Does the time taken to reply play a huge part in it? If so, when should a girl start taking the hint that you guys are not/no longer interested?
Yes, in my experience, this is something both sexes experience, and it is very easy to tell if someone is interested in you trough how they behave with texting…
I’m not interested red flags for both sexes
After the first date, does not send a text at all
Generally takes more than a few hours to reply
Doesn’t propose an other date/time when declining an offer
I’m interested green flags for both sexes
Send a text after within 2 hours after the first date
Generally replies within a few hours
Takes initiative to propose a new date/time if not available
I get a girls contact/phone number,
a day or 2 later I ask her if she is free tonight or tomorrow night…
If she is busy, typically, with experience, there are 2 kind of girls here…
The flaky girl: she will just say “No” or “I can’t tonight”
The motivated girl: She will say “I can’t tonight, but I’m free Thursday night”
See ? The first girl has low interest, in a bad mood, not feeling too available at the time. The second girl wants to meet !